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therawrchronicles:

Okay, libido has absolutely nothing to do with lacking sexual attraction, seriously you can be an asexual and be all ‘PRONS’ and stuff the whole time, just like not all sexual people watch/look at it, not all asexuals don’t.
Like last week someone posted about how they write smut and people were like ‘rage’ but if a straight person can write gay smut, and a gay person can write straight smut, than an asexual can write smut.
Being asexual just means we lack sexual attraction, we still experience all the other feelings everyone else does, awkward or not. 
Finding the thought of someone touching you repulsive doesn’t really make you ace, because sexual people can have that too, but if you lack sexual attraction and you want to identify as ace, then you are ace.
Personally I dislike porn because it’s just noisy and ridiculous, however a few of the aces I follow occasionally talk about liking it.
Honestly don’t fret on it~

This is totally okay! I am asexual as well. For me, I am not interested in having sexual encounters with anyone. If anything, I always joke about being, say, martinfreeman-sexual, which really means, “I would hold the shit out of his hand!!” and would be completely content. However, I also love letting my imagination run wild with erotic fantasies with my favorite fictional characters. I find relationships interesting and diverse, which has nothing to do with my own sexuality. The same may go for you!

therawrchronicles:

Okay, libido has absolutely nothing to do with lacking sexual attraction, seriously you can be an asexual and be all ‘PRONS’ and stuff the whole time, just like not all sexual people watch/look at it, not all asexuals don’t.

Like last week someone posted about how they write smut and people were like ‘rage’ but if a straight person can write gay smut, and a gay person can write straight smut, than an asexual can write smut.

Being asexual just means we lack sexual attraction, we still experience all the other feelings everyone else does, awkward or not. 

Finding the thought of someone touching you repulsive doesn’t really make you ace, because sexual people can have that too, but if you lack sexual attraction and you want to identify as ace, then you are ace.

Personally I dislike porn because it’s just noisy and ridiculous, however a few of the aces I follow occasionally talk about liking it.

Honestly don’t fret on it~

This is totally okay! I am asexual as well. For me, I am not interested in having sexual encounters with anyone. If anything, I always joke about being, say, martinfreeman-sexual, which really means, “I would hold the shit out of his hand!!” and would be completely content. However, I also love letting my imagination run wild with erotic fantasies with my favorite fictional characters. I find relationships interesting and diverse, which has nothing to do with my own sexuality. The same may go for you!

(Source: queersecrets)

  1. thislifeisbrilliant reblogged this from queersecrets
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    New word: Porn Sexual! Congrats, your kicks will be always available and guilt-free! (Unless your tastes run to the...
  3. awesomestockings reblogged this from acesecrets and added:
    You’re like me. Just that I get my highs and downs on libido. Most of the times the erotic fiction I read is fanfiction...
  4. wakazoo reblogged this from soptastic and added:
    This is totally okay! I am asexual as well. For me, I am not interested in having sexual encounters with anyone. If...
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    Okay, libido has absolutely nothing to do with lacking sexual attraction, seriously you can be an asexual and be all...
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  16. girlsandgifs reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    You can still be ace. And you’re not alone in this, though I’m pretty against porn for a variety of reasons. It’s not so...
  17. squareroot-1 reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    First, asexuality is not about libido, erotica, porn, or even touching. It’s about not being sexually attracted to...
  18. closetwhatcloset reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    I am highly touch sensitive. Physical affection is very intimate for me, being an empath, so I cannot handle just anyone...
  19. not-wanting-more reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    omfg. I totally fucking relate to this 100%
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    I think more people differ from their in-practice sexuality vs. their fantasies than is let on. If you’re ace, then...
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  22. misscarlosmcgee reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    Oh my god I feel your pain :( It’s like in theory I’m pansexual, but in practice I’m asexual.